Several thoughts reached congruence for me today. The result is a huge kick in the pants.
A few days ago, I listened to a call-in seminar provided by Christine Kane, singer/songwriter/blogger/creativity coach.
She spoke about New Year’s intentions, very different than resolutions. It was really cool. I found where my sticking point was. I’m thinking on how to work on that this year.
But one phrase reached out and really whapped me on the head. (The proverbial dope slap through the telephone, so to speak.)
She said our current culture creates “a conspiracy of distraction.”
I work in a studio connected to our home. It used to be only the doorbell and the phone that broke up my days. (Well, and crying children, too, to be fair.)
Now the disruption is constant. Email. IM. Texting. Facebook. Blogging. My beloved Twitter. I even have two phone lines, one for our house and one for my business and faxes. One phone is hard enough to ignore, but two….
All contribute to a constant stream of of interruptions and distraction throughout my day.
I know the simple answers: “Turn off the phone!” “Take the computer out of your studio!” Just focus on your artwork!” Yeah, that works. Just like, “Don’t eat that box of cookies at 10 p.m.!”
Bad habits are hard to break. I’ve tried to break this one before, and failed.
Fortunately, I am not alone, and good people are at work in the world, writing books and telling me how to deal with this. (Except, of course, the irony of taking time to read yet another book that tells me how to improve myself.) Perhaps this shorter blog article will do the trick.
But it has to happen. Today a dear friend sent me a link to this article by artist Katherine Tyrrell in her blog, Making a Mark.
She talks about how it takes 10,000 hours devoted to something to make it really outstanding.
This make me think about that conspiracy of distraction, and how it sucks our time so completely.
We need that time, so we can put in our 10,000 hours.
This all relates back to a little half sheet of paper that changed my life.
I was struggling through my kickboxing training, about two years in. I felt like I was making no progress. Instead of getting better, I was painfully aware of how bad I really was. My instructor ran back to his office and came back with a half sheet of paper, which he gave to me.
On it were the four stages of learning.
Most people quit at stage two. It’s simply too painful, and they quit dieting, stop their studies, quit making art, stop writing.
Just knowing that….just understanding that it’s going to be hard at this stage…was enough to keep me going.
I’ve written about this before, but I can only find this short version I wrote for Robert Genn’s website awhile back.
The 10,000 hours ties in nicely with the four stages of learning.
The last piece of the puzzle was reading about how it can take eight tries to make a major change in your life. Whether you’re trying to stop smoking, exercise more, jump start your new art career, sell a wall hanging, you will fail, or you will hear “no”, an average of eight times.
Maybe my past efforts to make these crucial changes failed. But I will keep trying.
Because when the universe tells you three times to sit down and do the work, you better listen.
So why did I take the time to write this out, instead of jumping up to sew a fabric piece?
Because writing is one of my creative processes.
Because if I write it down, then I won’t forget it.
And if I publish it, then I can share it with you.
p.s. Just as I finished this, the phone rang.
p.p.s. And the doorbell rang.