I’ve been answering questions about blogging on Quora for awhile now. So every day, I get about half a dozen ‘requests’ for information and advice on the topic.
Most of them are out of my league, and my comfort zone. I do not know how to make money from my blog. I tried it once, two people signed up, and it just felt icky. (Not everything we do can make money.)
Today, I responded to an old question from two years ago. (The link in my email took me to it instead of the orginal poster, for some reason.)
The person said they suffer from a lack of motivation about writing. And anything they want to write about, someone else has already said it, and said it better.
A well-known writer said they should just quit, if they couldn’t do it. (Argh!!!)
Here’s what I wrote instead:
Here’s the weird thing about writing:Even some of the best writers struggle to make themselves write. They also struggle about what to write about.
Here’s an article I came across the other day that helped a friend: Brandon Sanderson’s Advice for Doing Hard Things
Here’s another that crossed my path from The New Yorker magazine about one of the best-known writers in America: John McPhee’s Slow Productivity
Yep. He writes 500 words a day. Not much more than a page. (But he wrote every day.)
And here’s one of my favorite blog posts about making room for ‘making’: THIS IS LOVE
Did you see the part where she couldn’t believe her process was “professional”? Until I pointed out that her practice/process was actually working for HER?
The trick is to find out what works for YOU. For me, it’s deadlines. I had regular gigs for almost two decades, and my best work always showed up the day before my deadline. Now that I don’t have any, I have to REMIND myself to write.
I love writing, it’s who I am, it’s how I sort stuff out and make my way through this crazy world.
And yet it’s still hard to “make time” to do it.
We think of successful authors as people who just sit and write all the time. Yeah, some do. But most don’t.
Even if it’s ‘who we are’, it’s just like every other important thing we have to make room for in our life: Exercise. Reading (instead of doomscrolling or watching movies.)
So figure out what works for YOU. A writing group with accountability? Scheduling a daily writing period?
As for coming up with something original, there are two ways to look at that: One, YOU are unique, and whatever you share will reflect that. Write about the topics, events, thoughts YOU care about. And two, there is nothing new under the sun. Of course other people have already “said” it. But “everything” also gets transformed when it passes from our mind/heart to paper (metaphorically paper). Do you really think no one wrote a romance story with a sad ending after Shakespeare’s Romeo and Juliet??
Don’t walk away from the work of your heart because you think you’re doing it wrong.
Celebrate what makes you YOU, no matter how you do it, no matter how you get it done, and no matter whether someone’s already said it. You will transform ‘trite’ into ‘passion’ with your own way with words, with your own experiences, with your own thoughts.
Now git busy and go write something.
Short answer: Do the work of YOUR heart because it will be your voice in the world.
It might be hard to get it done, and even harder to get it out in the world.
But it will worth it to YOU. And it will be worth it for others in ways we can’t even imagine.
You can see the original post here: https://www.quora.com/How-can-I-deal-with-lack-of-motivation-to-create-content-I-feel-like-anything-I-could-possibly-say-has-already-been-said-better-by-at-least-a-thousand-people/answer/Luann-Udell?prompt_topic_bio=1