I had the same bumper sticker on my car for years, right next to my “BRAKE FOR MOOSE, IT COULD SAVE YOUR LIFE!” sticker from the NH Fish and Game Department. (I love the looks I get from it when I drive around in Philadelphia….)
Some people take this to mean you should only hang out with happy people. Well, yeah, there’s that.
For me, it was a constant reminder that people who nay-say your dreams, your ideas, your business, your art…
They are not necessarily telling you that “for your own good”.
They have their own motivation, their own agenda. And their motive is to not further yours.
I was especially reminded of this a few years ago. I’d hit a roadblock with my work. Wasn’t sure where to go with it, or what to do next. Heck, did the world even want my art? It sure didn’t feel like it….
That was a rough time, a scary time.
What was even scarier was, I became hyper-critical and hyper-jealous of those who did appear to have their act together.
And I also took some big hits from other artists I suspect were in the same scary boat/place.
So my take on this little homily is this:
If you love the work you do, if you are making the best art you can, if making it makes you a better person….
Then it’s good enough to be in the world.
Maybe I don’t like it. But that’s my problem, not yours. It probably serves somebody’s purpose, even if it isn’t mine.
And when other people are giving you crap, don’t take it personally.
In fact, don’t take it at all.
Because chances are, it’s somebody who’s in a really bad place with their own work.
You can sympathize, if you are a big person. (I’m not.) But don’t give in to them.
Those who abandon their dreams,
will discourage yours.