One of the biggest obstacles to de-junking is worrying you’ll get rid of something you’ll really regret later.
All of us have a story like that. One week, you throw away all your red widgets. The next, you realize you desperately need more red widgets. And they cost three times as much as what you paid for them last time.
Or you give away a wodget you didn’t use for ten years. And a week later, you think of some usage that wodget would be perfect for.
A friend once explained that phenomenon to me. It needs a good name. Like “rue-membering”.
The reality is, you’d already forgotten you had that wodget. if you hadn’t cleaned out your attic and come across that wodget, you still would not have thought of it a week later.
Or if you did find the perfect use for it, and remembered you had it, you wouldn’t have been able to find it anyway.
You remembered it only because you touched it recently.
It’s like that “persistence of vision” thing when you look at a bright light, then look away. You don’t really still see the light–you see an image of the light that’s temporarily “burned” on your retina.
Similarly, you are having a “persistence of utility” for that object.
And it creates just enough regret to slow down your purging process.
Remember that when you’re making your stay/go decisions and your supports-my-vision/distracts-me-from-my-vision decisions.
And if you find yourself still full of second-guessing, here’s a good statistic to keep in mind:
Out of the thousands of items I’ve given away in the past month, I regret giving away oh, maybe one or two of them.
And I can’t even remember what those are right now.