A reader posted a good comment to one of my essays in this series, remarking that different purge strategies work for different people. She pointed out that she makes good money from regular yard sales, and that the motivation of making a chunk of change works really well for her.
The same day, I met up with old acquaintance through Freecycle. She told me I had quite a reputation in our local chapter for “giving away great stuff”.
Uh-oh. It got me thinking….
Was I being an idiot, giving all this “great stuff” away?
I got caught up again about how much money I’d spent of this stuff. I wondered if I should be consigning this stuff, or selling it. It affected my ability to make quick decisions about each item.
And the purge process slowed down. Way, way down.
This weekend, I showed someone my newly-organized attic, with all my booth stuff stored neatly away to one side. There against a wall was my big insight.
I myself have been given so much.
Things other artists had given to me.
It came about this way:
One year, I opted to do a sales/demo booth at the League of New Hampshire Craftsmen’s Annual Fair. It was a huge undertaking in so many ways, not the least of which was designing a gallery-like setting and a demonstration station in a 600 square foot tent space.
Yes, you read that right. I had to equip the equivalent of six standard-sized booth spaces.
I needed six times the walls I normally used. Six times the display structures. Six times the lighting. I needed a way to cover the floor, create signage, create traffic flow that made sense. Additional sales staff and inventory.
It was almost insurmountable. But I turned to my community–and my friends–and asked for help.
I posted on a few forums asking for ideas and suggestions.
Several artists responded not only with advice, but with stuff.
Thank you to Jill O’Reilly, who invited me down to her studio in Massachusets, and gave me her old wall set-up, flooring, and a ton of Abstracta parts.
And thank you to Amy Peters for giving me a ton of flooring and a shipping case to store it in.
I could not have created such an incredible presence at that show without their incredible generosity and support. What they gave me was worth hundreds, if not thousands, of dollars. And neither of them asked for a penny, unless I “felt like” giving them a piece of my jewelry or something.
So when I start to fret about giving away a $25 object, or a $50 object, or a $100, I stop and think….
So much has been given to me. It’s my turn to give back.
For me, for right now, it would feel small-in-spirit to stop that flow, to hoard what I can’t or don’t want to use, until someone pays me for it.
That’s just where I am in my karmic cycle right now.
So as my reader said, if selling your discards works for you, go for it! If you need that money to finance your next step in your dream, do it! There have been times in my life where I needed the dough, and I truly understand.
But if you find it hinders instead of helps, know this:
You could be helping someone else take that big step forward, if you can simply let it go.