DON’T ERASE–EMBRACE!

Some things in life–kids; dogs; art–just don’t much much sense. Until you look back and try to imagine your life without them.

My husband and I, we weren’t too wild about kids–until we had kids.

We weren’t too crazy about dogs, either–until we got a dog.

So what, you say? What does this have to do with art?

I’m saying there are some things you can’t make a rational decision about. Until you jump in and embrace them fully.

Kids. Dogs. Art.

Stand on the outside, and it doesn’t look very practical. It’s all very well to say “Follow your bliss, and the money will follow.” It’s another thing to wonder just how you’ll pay the mortgage with that fancy art degree you just got.

If you’re on the outside looking in, it’s very easy to say, “Well, there’s just no way.”

Some people take a quick peek, but say, “Well, it’s just not a good time. Maybe next year.” To which my mother wisely said, “It’s never a good time to have children.”

This was some of the best advice I’ve ever gotten. Because once you step inside that world, you will somehow find a way to make it work.

Because you have to.

Some of us cobble it together. We work part-time at our art, and have a day job somewhere else. We take on other creative ways to generate income: Teaching, writing, consulting. Or we work full-time at our craft while a spouse, hopefully following their passion, carries the bulk of the financial load. Some of us do a lot of production work that pays for the big intuitive projects, the ‘big art’, that may or may not ever sell. Some of us actually hire other people to help us get our vision out into the world, and we end up running a real business with real employees and sick days and benefits packages.

It’s all okay.

The important thing is, we knew deep down inside we had to do this–and we do it.

Something inside said, “If you don’t do this, there’s a chance you won’t miss it.

But there’s a bigger chance you’ll passed by the opportunity to experience something really, really important.”

Art isn’t for everyone. Just like kids and dogs aren’t for everyone.

But once you embrace that destiny, there’s a good chance you’ll find you can’t imagine your life without it.

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4 responses to “DON’T ERASE–EMBRACE!

  1. …very true we have one child and are considering a dog and we can always think of reasons not too, but I think the rewards always (as with kids) out way the negatives (if any). With Art I’ve been doing it for so long I couldn’t imagine living without it….

  2. Nice one, Luanne! It’s the thing I call the “what if factor.” The unfettered child says…”let’s try this and see.” We supposedly learn about ninety percent of what we end up knowing as adults before we are five years old! So much for the wisdom of the child and the “what if factor!” We grown-ups say “nothing ventured, nothing gained” and things like that…but it’s all the same good stuff– jump in and try it. Be willing to fall down and decide to try again. Riding a bike is an impossible thing to do! But my four year old granddaughter says she will get rid of the training wheels and be like her brother. But she wisely adds: “But riding a one-wheeler is VERY TRICKY, Mommom.” She is getting a sense of how far she wants to dare already.

    old swimmer

  3. Elaine Luther

    Did you hear about the couple in their 70s who went to see the priest to get married? “Why did you wait so long?” asks the priest.

    They say, “we waited until we had enough money.”

    ——-
    Great post!

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